In April 2019 the world witnessed the celebrity divorce between Amazon founder, Jeff Bezos, and his wife, Mackenzie Bezos. The divorce is officially the ‘most expensive in history’ not because of the legal costs incurred but rather due to the sizeable and valuable asset base.
Jeff and Mackenzie Bezos were applauded for their amicable approach to their separation which resulted in an out of court settlement concluded within a few months.
In South Africa, a similar approach is available, where married couples who have agreed to part ways, opt to proceed with an uncontested divorce by entering into a settlement agreement. This article focuses on uncontested divorces and answers the frequently asked questions we receive from clients.
What does irretrievable breakdown of a marriage mean?
Contrary to popular belief, South Africa has a no-fault system which means that no legal consequences are attributed to the person responsible for the breakdown of the marriage.
In terms of the Divorce Act it is mandatory to provide a reason for the breakdown of your marriage. The most common ground for divorce is an irretrievable breakdown of the marriage which includes the following examples:
- The parties have not lived together as husband and wife for a continuous period of at least one year;
- A party to the marriage has committed adultery and the other party finds it impossible to continue living together as husband and wife;
- loss of love and affection for each other;
- substance abuse; and/or
- That the parties are too different and incompatible.
- You and your spouse arrive at your own agreements, a Court is not dictating the outcome;
- The process encourages communication and problem solving;
- It is considerably less expensive compared to litigating;
- Matters are resolved quickly;
- It limits conflict between spouses as the process is amicable, conciliatory and tends to decrease hostility and reduce future conflict;
- The impact of ongoing litigation on the emotional wellbeing of children is negated.
- Consent Paper (settlement agreement), this is the settlement agreement, which deals with all financial aspects ranging from the division of assets (i.e. houses, pension funds, furniture etc), liability of debts, maintenance for children and maintenance for a spouse, if applicable; and
- Parenting Plan, if there are children under the age of 18. The Parenting Plan will detail the rights and responsibilities of both parents by setting out joint decisions required, where the children’s primary residence will be, the contact times when the other parent will see the children, holiday arrangements etc.